Time
Management for Busy Parents
Making more time for your family.
From the book,
Better Homes and Gardens New Father Book
Make Family a Priority
Prioritize your time.
The biggest mistake people make is failing to prioritize their time.
Example: At the office, rather than working on the big projects early
in the day when they are freshest, many men work on their mail or phone
call list. Later in the day, when they are tired, they try to turn to
the important projects. The result: feeling overwhelmed by a "lack of
time."
Keep a daily "To Do"
list. To help prioritize tasks, make a "To Do" list and prioritize
the items on the list. Be sure to include both family and work
activities for that day. Make sure your family comes out high on your
list of daily priorities. Share this list with your family as a way to
help keep you motivated to stick to your priorities and as a subtle
means of emphasizing how high up they are on your list.
Don't worry if you don't
finish all things on your list; most people don't. The important thing
is getting the highest priority items completed, and that should
include spending time with your family.
Root Out Time-Wasters
Turn off the television.
Television is the great family-time killer. Limiting both
your own and your children's television viewing will greatly increase
the amount of time you have available to spend with each other.
Eliminate time-wasting
habits. Many people spend too much time on activities that are
relatively unimportant or could be accomplished in much less time.
Example: Spending 45 minutes reading the newspaper, when a quick scan
of the headlines will give you essentially the same information. It's a
good idea to monitor your daily habits and search for ways to reduce
the time you spend doing them.
Practice Efficiency
Prepare for the day the
night before. Using the night before to prepare for the next day
is a great time-saver because it allows you to use the morning, when
you are at your best, to accomplish the important tasks. Examples:
- Lay out your work clothes for the next day before you go to
bed.
- Put your coffeemaker on a timer so your wake-up brew is
already made when you wake up.
- Organize your briefcase the night before and place it by
the front door or in the car.
- Make your daily "To Do" list before you go to bed instead
of first thing in the morning.
Learn
to do several things at once. Many tasks take only a few moments,
such as reading a memo or opening mail. Learn to use spare moments to
get these tasks accomplished. Examples:
- When put on hold during a telephone call, put the call on
speaker phone and use the time to read a memo or open a letter.
- Take a small tape recorder with you when running errands or
traveling in a car and create oral memos that can be typed up by you or
your secretary later on.
Use
e-mail instead of letters and phone calls. The informality of
e-mail means you will spend less time communicating compared to writing
a letter or playing phone tag.
Delegate
low-priority jobs. Not everything needs to be done by you
personally. The key to effective time management is delegating
everything you can.
Overcome
Perfectionism
Fight
the urge to be perfect. Perfectionism is the enemy of time. Most
tasks only require that they be "good enough," not perfect. Remember,
your family is really job number one. When faced with a task that
competes with family time, ask yourself: "Which is more important, that
this task be done perfectly or that I spend this time with my family?"
And
don't confuse neatness with efficient time management. Some people
spend half their day organizing their desk. As long as your clutter is
organized, you'll do fine.

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